Self-awareness and self-control

People who are intellectually smart is often not the most successful people in business and in their personal lives, Mayer and Salovey wrote in his book The Intelligence of Emotional Intelelligence based survey has. According to Daniel Goleman, emotional intelligence includes self awareness, self-regulation, motivation, empathy and social skills. Self-awareness of emotional awareness, self assessment and self-confident mutually agree. To raise awareness of the emotions that have to do is find out more emotions and why can happen emotions, recognize the relationship between feeling with thought, done and said, knowing how feelings can affect performance and has the awareness of values ​​and personal goals. To perform an accurate self must be aware about the strengths and weaknesses of self, taking the time to reflect and learn from experience, open to feedback sincere, willing to accept the perspective bamampu show a sense of humor and willing to see ourselves in a broad perspective. To increase confidence boldly performing with confidence, dare to declare its existence, daring to voice unpopular views and are willing to sacrifice for the sake of truth, firm, able to make good decisions in uncertain circumstances and depressed. Self-regulation include self-control, reliability, prudence, adaptability and innovation.Increased self-control include improvements in managing impulsive feelings and emotions that suppress, think positive, stay firm and not waver even in the toughest situations, think clearly and remain focused despite the depressed state. To be more credible had to show honesty and integrity who act with ethics and never embarrass other people, improve reliability and authenticity of self, to admit mistakes and dare to reprove yourself with an unethical act wisely and sticking to principles. Increased self-control also involves the ability of a reliable and responsible to meet obligations, flexible in handling change and challenges as well as being open to new ideas and new approaches and information. Blue ocean strategy (Blue Ocean Strategy) requires the relentless innovation. "Beperang the greatest is the one who fought against the desires to get the pleasure of God" the words of the Prophet